I am a social media addict. I love Facebook and Twitter and check them everyday… multiple times a day. My addiction got worse when I got my iPhone last summer making it easier for me to check on Facebook and Twitter while on the run.
Generally, I post random tidbits about my life: what I’m up to, where I’m traveling to, or some yummy new food I’m enjoying (you will notice there is a foodie section on this blog). However there is one thing that I never posted about – my pregnancy. This lead to a few surprised coments when i posted a picture of my newborn son and I on June 25.

Dean and I when he is an hour old.
So why didn’t I post about my pregnancy? Initially, I did not post about it because I waited until I was 18 weeks pregnant to tell my work. Even then, I was still processing the whole idea of being pregnant and did not feel ready to share it with the world.
As time went on, I began to think about how social media has changed our lives and the way we share information. Was it possible to keep anything private in this world of over-sharing? That is when I decided to conduct an experiment. It is completely UNscientific, and more just my observations.
My experiment was this: make no mention of my pregnancy on social media and see what peoples reactions were when he’s born. The result: 42 likes and 91 comments on the above picture. Several of those comments were of the “I had no idea you were pregnant!” variety!
So the answer is yes, it is possible, even for a social media addict such as myself, to keep some things private and personal. Before Facebook and Twitter, it may have been months or years before that friend from high school who I never see in real life anymore found out about my child. I’m not saying that it is good or bad, but more just odd that do know so much about people that we don’t really see anymore.
I will continue to share about my life on social media, and hopefully this blog (got to get better at updating it regularly). But it is nice to know that it is possible to keep certain things in my life private.